Patricia Lou Ross

Patricia Lou Ross

Tuesday, April 29th, 1924 - Thursday, March 19th, 2020
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Patricia Lou Ross
April 29, 1924 – March 19, 2020

Patricia Lou Absher Ross, 95, of Kihei Maui, died peacefully March 19, 2020 in Kula Maui. Patricia was preceded in death by her husband of 58 years, Lt. Cmdr. John William Ross, Jr. and her son-in-law Michael Dudley. She leaves behind her four children: Mary Saylor (Scott), Bill Ross (Susanna), Jim Ross (Didi), and Nancy Dudley; six grandchildren: Scott, Nicole, Emily, Joel, Angela, and Nathan; two hanai daughters: Cindy and Janet; one great grandchild Jimmy, and she also leaves behind many loving family members and friends. The family offers heart felt thanks to all of Patricia’s caregivers, Caring K9s Maui, and to Hospice Maui.
Patricia was born in Napavine Washington on April 29, 1924. She graduated from the University of Washington School of Nursing and served in the Cadet Nurse Corp during and after WWII. After raising her four children, she returned to nursing and college earning her Master’s Degree enabling her to expand her career into Health Education. Throughout her life she continued volunteering for organization and causes close to her heart including Veterans Administration Maui and Hospice Maui. A memorial service will be held at a future date.
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Nick Oltmans

Posted at 09:31pm
We just heard of the passing of your mother. Your parents were the first people that we meet in Maui after we locked ourselves out of our house late at night with my wife in her night clothes. We became close friends after that. Your mother was a pistol and a great person. She will be missed by many , God has Blessed Her. Nick & Sharon Oltmans

Gwen Douglass

Posted at 12:53am
Always joyful!


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Posted at 03:28pm
Pat was such an amazing woman and a true inspiration to all . I was truly blessed to call her my friend.

Cindy Calleja Posted at 08:01pm

Oh sweet Gwen , thank you for loving my “Dear”❤️🙏🏼 I really needed this today xo

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